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Help, I'm in Love with a Narcissist [Hardcover]

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Pages   270
Est. Packaging Dimensions:   Length: 1" Width: 6.25" Height: 9.25"
Weight:   1.06 lbs.
Binding  Hardcover
Release Date   Mar 25, 2005
Publisher   M. Evans and Company, Inc.
ISBN  1590770773  
EAN  9781590770771  

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The authors expose the dangers of narcissistic behavior in a relationship, showing readers how to identify narcissism, recognize the various feelings it evokes, and learn to avoid such relationships in the future.

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wow...if you've been involved with a narcissist you need this book!  Oct 24, 2008
i knew nothing about narcissism. i thought it was just being extremely arrogant but it's so much more. after having one of the most hurtful and traumatic relationships of my life i start doing some research on-line and realized that my ex-bf was probably a toxic narcissist. even though the relationship is completely over i had a hard time just shaking it off and moving on mentally. i read the reviews here and decided to purchase this book. i'm glad i did.

if i could give this book 6 stars i would. it helped me resolve some feelings i had more than counseling did. my counselor didn't know the person i dated well but reading this book really put me on the path to healing because it helped me realize when you're dealing with a narcissist it's not about you, nothing you do will change the person. period. it's hard to really accept that because we want to believe people can change but narcissism so ingrained in who a person is and how they think, the person isn't likely to change. there's a lot of repetition of the themes but i felt that was necessary to drive home the point and how toxic these people are. don't worry, if you're not in love with a narcissist then this is just interesting reading, it won't brainwash you into viewing everyone that way but oh if you were with a narcissist it helps you to understand what is/was going on that you and certainly nobody on the outside can comprehend.

as the authors say, they are not psychotherapists but they do pull together a plethora of relevant information and interviews. the book has lots of "real life" stories and advice that is so useful. you'll begin to see that the sad world that you had with your narcissist is so hurtful and damaging but you can get better and move on. the stories confirm you aren't crazy, they are! but you have to do the work to move beyond the hurt. i would recommend this book to anyone that believes they were involved with a narcissist. i feel sure that i would not get involved with another person like this now that i know better how narcissists operate and why i was even attracted to someone like that in the first place. a relationship with a narcissist seems almost unbelievable because of the magnitude of the things that happen over and over. it's so harmful to your spirit BUT you have to do everything you can for your mental health. if you've been hurt by a narcissist it's worth it to read this book!
Narcissist Screening Tool  Jul 5, 2008
Time flies when it's all about you

I recently went on a hike with two of my closest and smartest guy friends (an investment banker and a lawyer). When we returned to the car I remarked, "Did the way back to the car seem much shorter than when we hiked out on the trail?"

My first friend said, "I didn't notice much of a difference."

My second friend said, "That's because you did most of the talking."

I was embarrassed and quipped back, "That must explain why the first half seemed to take so long."

I am more neurotic than I am narcissistic, which means I feel hurt much more often than I feel angry. It explained to me why I may get along with so many people, because I am generally more of a listener than a talker.

It also made me aware of how quickly narcissists can become angry and even enraged when they're not catered to. Narcissists are often very attractive, because they seem so strong and when they're romancing you, they can make you feel: "This person (most often men, but increasingly now also women) will take care of me and protect me from harm." The problem is that early on when you are the object of desire you can feel that way, but after they have you, too often you learn that their strength is mainly stubbornness and their desire is more often liking you for the way you make them feel about themselves. It turns out not to be about liking you.

As a result, it is a wise thing to smoke out narcissists, before you become involved with one. Here is how to do it:

1. Get them talking to the point where they are going on and on and seem to be enjoying themselves.
2. After they finish say to them: "Gee, I can really appreciate how much you enjoy talking about ________ (fill in the blank about the main subject they were speaking about).
3. Wait for them to nod or say, "Yes."
4. Then say with a coy smile: "You would have enjoyed it even more, if I was listening."

That may seem cruel, but in reality it is teasing someone who may be a little too full of themselves. The neurotic will get embarrassed (as I did above); the narcissist will show a flash of anger.

If you are dealing with a narcissist, run. Think you can change one, think again and read Steven Carter's and Julia Sokol's wonderful book: "Help! I'm in love with a Narcissist."

-Mark Goulston, M.D.
author: The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship

The Best Book Ever!  Nov 26, 2007
This book has been so helpful to me. If you have ever been in a romatic relationship with a narcissist---you need to read this book. It is incredibly well-researched and well-written. It helps you understand the disorder, why you are attracted to the disorder, what you can do from here, etc. It allows you to feel better about yourself and your life. I commend the authors in their writing and level of depth. I felt like you were spot on in some many ways. Thank you for writing this book. It has made a big difference in my life. Thank you.
Excellent. One of the best on this subject.  Nov 18, 2007
The authors actually do not have degrees in psychotherapy yet they know exactly what narcissists are and what they are about.

This book is one of the very best in this subject and the authors give great descriptions, stories, sympathy, and advice for people who are connected with narcissists.

You should read this.
Excellent book on Narcissism  Oct 17, 2007
This book really helped me understand my narcissist ex-husband better than any book or online information so far. It's so very good at explaining what a Narcissist is, why some of us are targets for them and get sucked up into their vortex of nonsense and how to protect yourself so you don't do it again.

Wish I'd read this book 20 years ago - it would have save me a considerable amount of emotional pain and sorrow.

I especially liked how the book was not sexist (Narcissist can be either sex) and also pointed out how the Narcissist targets your own Narcissistic tendencies. That was an eye opener!

I recommend this book highly.

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